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ABM – Always Be Marketing: What Does It Mean To You?

image At the recent 140 Twitter Conference, I sparked a bit of controversy on the branding panel that I participated on: I brought up a point that reminds me of the line in the movie Glengarry Glen Ross “ABC, always be closing” and I framed it as “ABM = always be marketing” and “always be me.”

I was fascinated to see the polarized responses from the audience, Twitterverse and one of my fellow panelists. (I’m a big fan of expressing opinions, but it’s not my style to polarize! Oh well!)

To me, Always Be Marketing means that I am extremely mindful and strategic about everything I do online and in public. For example, turquoise and bling is my signature branding color/look/feel – so that’s what I present in public. (Eighty percent of my wardrobe is a shade of blue!) And, my persona is upbeat, open, caring, genuine and always helpful, always willing to answer questions particularly about Facebook. This is all part of my brand.

In fact, the greatest compliment I receive is when people meet me in person and say I’m exactly like they thought I would be from how I am online.

imageWith social media so prevalent we are all EXTREMELY visible. Your prospective clients, your peers and your competition can drill as deep as they wish searching, reading and gathering information online about you and posted by you without you ever knowing who’s searching. Depending on what they find, your prospects may choose to do business with you or not.

Being mindful and in “ABM” mode helps with reputation management. To me, ABM means you’re never careless about what you put out there. You see the longevity of everything that’s published. (For the best book on reputation management see, Radically Transparent by Andy Beal and Judy Strauss).

To some folks, the word “marketing” has negative connotations. It’s a word often misinterpreted as meaning “hocking your wares,” “pushing” and being like a used car salesman. That’s unfortunate. There’s a big difference between ABP: always be pushing and ABM: always be marketing!

I unfollow the “ABP” types on Twitter and unfriend or even block them on Facebook. I’m all about connecting and building relationships… and yes, there’s strategy to all that too. What may seem as idle chit-chat on Twitter is 100% visible to the whole world on Twitter. It’s important to always do your best, because you just never know who is watching you.

Perhaps some folks have negative feelings associated with the movie, Glengarry Glen Ross – it’s an intense movie and the question of ethics and integrity in sales is a theme running throughout the film. I certainly would never recommend doing “whatever it takes” to market. It has to be genuine, positive and contribute to your community. Like I say, the ABM also means “always be me” (or, for me, “always be Mari!”

In fact, here’s a couple of my fave nuggets from the #140tc:

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What are your thoughts? What does ABM mean to you? Do you consider yourself to be in “marketing mode” at all times – or is it something you turn on and off? Do you apply a special formula to your tweeting style with x% personal and x% business? Is there a clear line between the two, or are you like me and completely blend your social media personal/professional style because you know ultimately people are buying YOU first?! 😉 I’d love to hear from you – add your thoughts in the comments below:

Mari Smith

Often referred to as “the Queen of Facebook,” Mari Smith is widely known as the Premier Facebook Marketing Expert and a top Social Media Thought Leader. Forbes describes Mari as, “… the preeminent Facebook expert. Even Facebook asks for her help.” IBM named Mari as one of seven women that are shaping digital marketing. Mari is an in-demand keynote speaker, corporate social media strategist, dynamic live webcast host, and popular brand ambassador. She is coauthor of Facebook Marketing: An Hour A Day, and author of The New Relationship Marketing.

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28 Comments

  1. Justin Burrows on September 28, 2009 at 9:20 pm

    Mari Hi

    Just discovered your blog and so far I love it!

    I remember well my father teaching me ‘Always Be Closing’ when I first started in sales, the world is a very different place today, and your modification of ‘Always Be Mindful/Marketing/Me’ is in my opinion right on the button!

    It’s something I hadn’t full considered until reading this post, but from now on I will be much more mindful of how I market ME!

    Thanks a lot.



  2. Stephanie Treasure on September 28, 2009 at 3:22 pm

    I agree with you 100% Mari. You have to always be marketing, but be mindful of adding value and not just marketing – rather, pushing your wares. I read someone’s blog, don’t remember whose, that said, ‘Do you know what people will find when they Google you?’. People don’t always enter your space through the ‘front door’ so you want to make sure that your integrity shines through at every point of entry. And the best way is to always be marketing – in the genuine sense that is!



  3. Janice Campbell on September 28, 2009 at 7:58 pm

    Mari,

    I completely understand your point about ABM, and I agree. It’s simply another way of reminding people to always put their best foot forward.

    If what you do is congruent with who you are, the ABM policy will feel very natural and serve you well. It’s when you step out of the place of congruence that it becomes difficult.

    Janice Campbell

    Lucky Freelancer Coach
    National Association of Independent Writers and Editors

    Let’s connect on Facebook!
    http://www.facebook.com/janicepcampbell



  4. carol on September 27, 2009 at 10:38 pm

    Great info and i so totally agree that ABM (always be me) is the most vital success ingredient and ABM (always be marketing) comes alongside that too. Marketing has a bad name because there are so many push push people out there, who do this, primarily I believe, through fear and insecurity in themselves and their services or products.

    being true to yourself, even if that means you face adversity from others who do not like to listen to genuine, caring people and are more concerned with making money, rather than contributing to others through their bsuinesses, is so so important and vital.

    A business is founded by one person and often peopel forget to include their personality in the business, which is such a shame, as a business without personality is just another bland business in the midst of many others.

    heres to many more people who ABM always.
    Carol Dodsley
    http://www.choosechanges.com



  5. Jennifer Kettlewell on September 27, 2009 at 7:14 pm

    Mari,

    Thank you so much for posting this. Yes, it is amazing the variety of views on this very subject!

    During any social media training that I do, I let all my students know that it doesn’t matter if you friend me on Facebook, follow me on Twitter, or connect with me on LinkedIn you will find ME…100% genuine me.

    Yet, I am always conscious of my message and my presentation. It is imperative to make sure that people can recognize you on all those different platforms, as well as on the street. 🙂

    Your branding is what I call on my site ‘brandelicious’ and it is essential to create that awareness across different platforms.

    Once again, thank you for sharing, I always enjoy what you have to say!



  6. Jennifer Haubein on September 27, 2009 at 6:36 pm

    Hi Mari,

    I don’t why Marketing is such a dirty word! I love marketing, but you’re right a lot of people especially on the social media scene think we shouldn’t be marketing our businesses. There’s a big difference between marketing and spamming!

    For me social media is a big “dance” between business and personal. I talk about my business and my personal life, but it all ultimately is marketing.

    Like Ali Brown says “You’re in the business of marketing.” And if not then you probably won’t have a business for long.

    So exciting to see all that you’re up to since we met in Texas. And keep on marketing 🙂

    Jennifer Haubein



  7. Jim Zaccaria on September 27, 2009 at 8:01 pm

    You BEing ‘Genuine’ and ‘Authentic’ is one of the things I like Best about you Mari. When we met IRL @ #jval you were the Same person I had come to ‘get a feel for/of’ both online and in trainings I had heard you present. Of course – meeting you IRL was The Best, because I was able to better ‘Experience’ Your Wonderful and Radiant GoodEnergy. I’ve Never felt as if you were trying to ‘Sell’ me something. People Have to ‘Get’ that there’s NO difference today between their Business and Personal lives. We must strive to BE our Best in ALL ways, always. And That’s My Desert View n Review of your Gr8 article.
    Warmest regards,
    Jim Z in AZ
    VideoMarketeer



  8. Christine Elisabeth von Malsen Hueber on September 26, 2009 at 10:13 pm

    I agree that it’s so important to strive to always present our best online … thanks for the great reminder!

    To your continued success,
    Christine Elisabeth von Malsen Hueber
    Your Exclusive Social Networking Strategist & Business Management/QuickBooks Solutions Expert
    http://www.ChristineHueber.com
    ChristineEHueber @Gmail.com *please do connect with me here!*
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    +1 530.582.8091



  9. Beverly Bergman on September 26, 2009 at 9:19 pm

    Hi Mari,

    Glad you’re bringing this out. I couldn’t agree with you more — “people are buying you first.” We should always feel comfortable to be ourselves(“Always Be Me”)because who we are is enough. However, as business people, we should also be aware that people are always looking to us as an example of leadership, so we must “Always Be Marketing” as well. People buy from those they know, like and trust.

    Coincidentally, I’ve just been published in an anthology in which I’m featured “The Power of Leadership in Business Networking” by Daniel and Debbra Sweet. The chapter I contributed is titled “Others’ Perception Precedes You” and it is exactly on this topic. Other chapters in the book are also very informative regarding the ins and outs of business networking.

    Beverly Bergman
    CopywritingForCoaches.com



  10. Denise Wakeman on September 26, 2009 at 8:45 pm

    Mari, you’re right on. As you know I was there and witnessed the mixed reaction. I think your critics a) didn’t let you finish your explanation and b) didn’t want to acknowledge that everything we do in “public” as business owners reflects on how people think of us and whether or not they’ll choose to do business with us. Marketing is not a bad word and it’s essential if one wants to have a thriving, successful business and today that means being mindful of everything you say and do online and off.

    Along with being the Pied Piper of Facebook, you’re the Pied Piper of Positivity (can’t remember who coined that for you!) and your genuine, caring, respectful Mari-ness comes through loud and clear with this post.



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