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21 Keys to Profitable Relationships – Key #2

Always double check how you spell people’s names correctly.

In Key #1 I talk about the importance of remembering people’s first names. Just as important, you want to make sure you use the correct spelling of people’s names.

This is one of my wee sticklers. 😉 I have an unusual name spelling myself. Here’s something you may not know about me: As I’m Scottish – though born in Canada – my parents gave me the name Mairi, which is Gaelic for Mary. When in Scotland, I would tell people my name was Mairi like marigold.

But, when I moved to the United States in ’99, people pronounce marigold like marygold here! So, I dropped the silent middle “i” and tell people my name is like calamari now. Okay, I know squid is certainly not as attractive as a flower. Lol. If you can think of a better example, I’d love to know!

Many of my buds on Facebook and Twitter have unusually spelled names and I recommend making a point of double — sometimes triple – checking that you get the spelling correct. This reinforces the subliminal message that you CARE.

Here are a couple examples of my buds:

image JoLynn Braley @TheFitShack on Twitter.

JoLynn’s name isn’t that difficult to spell, but note she uses uppercase “L” in the middle of her name! 😉

image Deontée Gordon @deontee on Twitter.

I love how Deontée has an accent on the first “e.” Did you know you can make this e by pressing Alt+130: é! See my secret stash of Alt Codes here. Alternatively, you can copy and paste special characters.

Cheers,

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31 Comments

  1. Desa Micklewright on October 23, 2010 at 6:52 pm

    Great point! I grew up with an unusual name. Desa René Arguello (Desa pronounced like Tessa) You can only imagine the mispronunciation 🙂 I love your passion, style and sincerity. Thank you for all of your guidance! Oh and by the way, Mari sounds like starry which is like your smile!

    • Mari Smith on October 26, 2010 at 9:44 am

      heheee – you are too cute!! Thank you!! I like Mari like Ferrari now… or someone recently said like Superstarry so you're right on track!!! Lol!

  2. Mike on September 28, 2010 at 8:07 am

    Another amazing tip Mari ! thanks for all you do!

  3. Lisakneller on September 13, 2010 at 10:26 am

    Thanks for the codes!!! Awesome.

  4. Pamela on August 17, 2010 at 3:49 am

    On spot again Mari, spelling the name correctly is also a relationship killer because if you don't care enough to spell my name correctly why should I take my time to spend with you. It's what seems to be a little thing can certainly make the difference. Thanks

    • Mari Smith on August 24, 2010 at 10:05 pm

      Thanks a mil for your kind comments, Pamela – you rock!!! 🙂

  5. marveen1 on June 20, 2010 at 6:48 pm

    I have an unusual name too, MarVeena. Like a feminine version of Marvin
    Drives me nuts when people mispronounce it. I think Mari is beautiful!

    • Mari Smith on June 27, 2010 at 7:47 pm

      Aww, thanks!! I love your name too!!

  6. Michele on June 14, 2010 at 6:38 pm

    As a Michele with one “L” I love this one. I've battled people spelling my name wrong my entire life, even when they are seeing it multiple times while responding to an email.

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